DORMANT to DOMME

Embrace your dominant urges and use your most powerful strengths to immerse yourself into Dominance & Ownership.

TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF

Create a Sexy, Exciting and Fulfilling

D/s Female Led Relationship

that has

BALANCE in the Power IMBALANCE

Creating a Dominant/submissive, Female Led Relationship takes more than desire and a few protocols to build a satisfying and long lasting one.

TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WHERE I HAD ALL OF THE CONTROL

It took self awareness and using my 3 strongest traits and incorporating 3 main practices to create the balance in the power imbalance needed to enjoy the 360 D/s FLR I had put so much desire and effort into.

I MERGED ALL MY COMPARTMENTALIZED SELVES

I had pursued my Life Coaching certification. I’ve traveled the world. Been successful in my endeavors and I’d overcome obstacles throughout my life but it wasn't until I started exploring the sexual & psychological Dominant urges I’d had all my life that I had evolved into my final and still evolving form.

AFTER A PERIOD OF EXPLORING MY DOMINANCE WITH HIM I realized I wanted more than having him as my submissive,, but that I wanted to create a dynamic that was full D/s and FULL FLR that was tailored to me and everything I wanted.

Knowing this is the path I was about to go on, there were 3 things I needed to answer first.

  • I needed to see a final result and then I worked my way backwards. TO LAY THE FOUNDATION I HAD TO CREATE a VISION.

  • Every SUB is different. I KNEW I COULDN’T USE THE SAME TEMPLATE ON EVERY SUB.

    NOT BECAUSE I WAS GOING TO DOMME HIM ACCORDING TO HIS LIKES, BUT BECAUSE I WAS GOING TO USE WHAT I KNEW ABOUT HIM TO SEDUCE HIM INTO SUBMITTING TO ME.

    So I had to get to know him. I had to understand HIM, physically and psychologically.We can have the same end goal, but getting there is going to be different with different subs.

    BEFORE YOU PLAY CHESS, YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHAT EACH PIECE ON THE BOARD DOES AND HOW YOU CAN MOVE THEM STRATEGICALLY.

  • By taking him on as my submissive and later my slave, I was going to seduce him into a psychologically binding FLR and as his Domme I needed to take charge and responsibility for his mental well being.